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                                    | Reuben and Hayden | 
                                  
                                 
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                                    | Reuben aged 2 Hayden aged 6 months | 
                                  
                               
                            
                        
                        
                            
                              
                                 
                                    | Second Birthday | 
                                  
                                 
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                                    | "I love having cake and candles" | 
                                  
                               
                            
                        
                        
                            
                              
                                 
                                    | Reuben aged 14  Hayden 13 | 
                                  
                                 
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                                    | Teenage years | 
                                  
                               
                            
                        
                        
                            
                        
                        Click below to go to Reuben's Page
                            
                         
                        
                        Reuben's Page
                         
                        
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                                    | Hayden aged 9 months | 
                                  
                                 
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                                    | He didn't like sitting in the highchair | 
                                  
                               
                            
                        
                        Hayden was born on 21 October 1981, Mum Wendy
                           and Dad Chris, and brother Reuben welcomed this lovely new addition.  Like Reuben, Hayden went to Bluff Kindy and
                           Bluff school and not long after went to Clarendon School in Invercargill and then on to Tweedsmuir.  Then he went to
                           Orewa College in Auckland.
                            
                         
                        
                            
                              
                                 
                                    | Fondue Time | 
                                  
                                 
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                                    | Hayden LOVED the fondue | 
                                  
                               
                            
                        
                        
                           Hayden liked the practical side of school, woodwork, art, cooking etc, and when he was 15 he decided to leave formal schooling
                           and go and build boats.  He was doing well but tragically he died in car accident on 11 April 1997.  We still miss
                           him every day and often wonder how life would have been with him still on this earth.  His warm nature, he cute smile,
                           his hugs and amazing sense of humour with his infectious laughter.   
                                  One
                           day we will meet again 
                             
                              Click below to go to Hayden's final resting place. 
                           
                         
                        
                        Orepuki, Southland, New Zealand
                         
                        
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                                    | On holiday in the Wairoa | 
                                  
                                 
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                                    | Santa came with Smurf | 
                                  
                               
                            
                        
                        
                            
                              
                                 
                                    | Hapy Fifth Birthday | 
                                  
                                 
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                                    | I am off to School now... | 
                                  
                               
                            
                        
                        
                            
                              
                                 
                                    | The last Picture of Hayden | 
                                  
                                 
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                                    | Hayden aged 15  | 
                                  
                               
                            
                        
                        A GREAT LAD
                            
                         
                        
                        
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